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June 17, 2004 - 1:33pm

DFWBlogs just added their 500th blog to the list. I decided to celebrate by going to the happy hour last night. Though, it wasn't really happy hour by the time I arrived, since I had to go to class first. All the same, it was great to see a bunch of the bloggers. These are my people. Love them.

Caught up with a bunch of people and heard about their lives. (Congratulations, Alex, on the new job!) I really miss the days when I socialized every day of the week. So it was a ton of fun to get out on a Wednesday night. I felt very hip for once.

Due to Micah, conversation had an interesting turn near the end of the night. Micah shared an experience he had recently dating someone he met online. The conversation including, Leia, Connie, and Alex quickly grew into a discussion of dating. It all came down to this for me, though I'm not sure if I ever really said it - if you like someone enough to date them, you should like them enough to discuss things that matter to you. For example, there was discussion about who pays for dinner. In this day and age, it's not at all unreasonable to go dutch (or so we agreed last night), but there are still many women who don't think dutch is acceptable. When who pays becomes an issue, you really should discuss it with your date. If you don't know them well enough to discuss, should you really be dating? (But that really brings up a whole new discussion which revolves around how do you get to know someone new?) I'm not much for blind dating, which might be why I like long distance relationships so much - because of the distance, we're forced into talking about things, because all we have is conversation. I could go on and on, but I have to go to work. It was a fun conversation and I totally think someone should have a slumber party so we can stay up all night talking about dating and relationships.

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Thanks for the excellent insights last night, erica. I agree on the issue of having established a basic rapport before dating. That's why I'm moving farther and farther away from the online profile scene - it has a tendency to muddle the 'getting to know someone with no expectations' process...
Posted by micah on June 17, 2004 - 2:17pm
by the way. don't forget. you owe me a hip hop cd, mc lucky lucci, gangstah rappah...
Posted by micah on June 17, 2004 - 3:09pm
Sorry we missed you Erica! We had to leave a bit early last night. It was a great time, and I'm looking forward to next time!
Posted by Jake on June 17, 2004 - 4:24pm
1.) re: slumber party all night talk session: Sounds like we need to gather up people and continue the "Aberdeen Late Night Evening", Part II. 2.) So sorry I missed you last night. And for the record, I would have happily picked up your tab. heheh
Posted by ed k. on June 17, 2004 - 4:48pm
I'll gladly pick up any tab, whoever it is, don't care. But what I don't like is the gal that just assumes it will be grabbed no matter what. At least make a "fake" reach for your purse!
Posted by ShaunTX on June 17, 2004 - 9:00pm
i always reach for the purse. whether my date accepts my money for half of the bill or insists on paying the entire thing does not at all affect how i feel about the guy or the evening. i've dated guys with more money than me and with less money than me, and as long as nobody ever assumes the other person's paying, i'm happy. i've also picked up the tab for plenty of boyfriends who were strapped for cash, which i was glad to do as long as they never expected it.
Posted by alison on June 17, 2004 - 10:35pm
500!? That's alot of literate people for Dallas! (kidding!)
Posted by Jager on June 18, 2004 - 3:04am
good post there, jager. by the way, love the way that hat looks on you backwards.
Posted by micah on June 18, 2004 - 7:07am
I'll pay for dinner only if I know she's going to do the really weird freaky stuff later.
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